Saturday, August 23, 2008
11:06 PM
this post is going to be quite straightfoward so don't get offended.i can't be bothered spending so much time to twist words around so that you can get the message.why not just say it out?
to andrea:
its not working.you still go on about yu heng.don't hate me first.i don't want to affect our friendship. i juz want to tell you how i feel.you can ask mekko about her and melissa.its the same thing.
its perfectly normal to have a feeling towards a sec4 boy,especially at this age,but its affecting our friendship.u go out with him on weekends and tell me how is it,i'm okay.in fact i'm happy for you,but that day,i was so hungry,and we couldn't go mos burger,partly my fault bcoz of the timetable,but if you didn't have a date with him we could go and have a proper meal.we could have a nice time talking about funny things in mos burger like last time.can you understand?of course you can go on a date with him but i don't want it to affect our activities together.at first i thought i could take it but people's patience has a limit.the whole day is about yu heng.put yourself in other people's shoes.imagine your best friend knows a guy she likes and you haven't even seen his face,or even if you have you're not in the least interested in him,and she goes on about him the whole day.and whats worse is you give a forced smile so obvious how you're feeling,and your friend,instead of knowing how you feel,continues further,making you feel even worse.melissa you should understand(mekko),but juz dat she continues after you give that frail smile.try to think for other people not just yourself.i know you're going to say,"you know how i am!" but do u really want no other friends other than me?next time in society this is not going to be accepted,and i'm serious.EQ can be trained but not IQ.and EQ is very important in society but i don't see whats so important in IQ.so say no to maths.why must everything be algebra?why,why just so much algebra?can't they equalise it?don't they know that some ppl juz feel uncomfortable with so many letters and numbers?why can't they make the test paper equal of every topic and not almost everything algebra?WHY?!?its not fair!its called accomodation.maybe i'm wrong,but its very important.next time when u go out to work,not everything will go your way and you cannot keep insisting that you want it like that.you'll die in that kind of world out there,and i'm serious also.some things like not liking maths is ok,because if you ask the top students or even some of the teachers,i don't think all of them will say they love maths.even if they do,i don't think they like every topic of it.not liking maths is basically what everyone is doing even in society although maths is needed.but if you keep offending people,sooner or later they won't be able to stand it.like why some teachers know a lot of students hate them but they say they're ok with it.sometimes even people of a higher position have to give the baic respect of a human being.its not that the student hates the teacher because the teacher booked her,its the tone and the way he says things.he may be too straightfoward.and maybe his tone is not very nice.thats understandable for a teacher because scolding is like that what...typical.some teachers is because they like to joke about and keep students entertained.thats nice,because they're really funny,and the entire class laughs and thinks its funny.but to the student,its alright to joke about and keep the class entertained,in fact its nice of the teacher to do that,but sometimes he should take note of the language he uses and what he says.it cannot affect the sudent's morale.if u take a particular student and jokingly call her names,like not so nice names,even if its meant to be a joke,its already overdone.imagine a teacher calls you a gigolo.even jokingly and the whole class laughs,everyone,including the teacher thinks its funny,but i'm sure to the student,although she may be giving a forced smile,she dosen't find it funny at all.yeah,even if you're of a much higher position,i think it's only correct that you give the basic human respect.if the student has done something very wrong then of course the teacher will scream,and he has the right to do so,but he cannot use words that affect the student's morale because no matter how serious her offence is,you cannot use words like that.
sure,but it cannot affect OUR activities.surely not to the extent we can only have cupwalker for lunch.